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I still remember one quarrel where I said extremely willful words, denying your efforts for our love in a moment of anger. I saw the instant loss and hurt in your eyes, and I regretted it the second after I finished speaking, but my stubbornness made me refuse to apologize immediately. That cold war lasted half a day, and every minute of that half day was torment for both of us. After reconciliation, you hugged me and said that those words hurt you deeply, and my heart was filled with endless guilt. I hate that I let my bad emotions hurt the person I love the most, hate my momentary stubbornness and impulse. But these small hurts and regrets do not alienate us, but teach us to control our emotions better, to be more careful with each other’s feelings, and never treat the closest person with the worst temper. We learn from every inadvertent hurt, become gentler to each other, and guard our love more cautiously. The third regret is that in ordinary busy days, we sometimes ignore each other’s feelings because of work fatigue. When we are exhausted by heavy work pressure, we will be too tired to talk, too lazy to create small romances, and even perfunctory respond to each other’s words occasionally. We have neglected each other’s hidden needs in trivial busy days, forgot to take the initiative to care about each other’s tiredness, and let busyness occupy too much of our time belonging to each other. This is the most common regret in long-term love, a helpless flaw brought by realistic life pressure.